True Friendship !!

We have many perceptions of what a friend should or should not do.Sometimes our expectations lead to huge disappointments.When we have a true friend there should not be conditions on that friendship.For example I don't have friends for reasons of what they can or will do for me.When we do for one another it should be from the heart not from feeling of obligation.Also we should never feel if a person says no that the issue defines the friendship.What does make a true friend?To me that person is around no matter what,good times or bad times.A listening ear,a shoulder to lean on.All around I am the same to that person.Just because you feel you would do something for a friend and they don't or won't do it for you, doesn't mean they aren't your friend.They are not you.Don't expect to be treated by someone the same as you do them.Let every person have their own standard of living.Sometimes when we expect little we receive alot.We have to be examples to the children.Question:Who will help those that can't help themselves?